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Therefore, for people who wish to know some tips on how to get a date online, here’s how:

#1. One’s profile really matters. People who are into online dating should always keep this in mind: The success of getting a date online centers on a remarkable profile. It’s the sole information that can create such magnificent statements about a certain person.

#2. Photos do speak a thousand words. Alongside a good profile, good photographs can do wonders too. Surveys show that almost 95% of people who are searching for somebody to date look at the pictures first. After all, physical attraction is the number concern of dating.

#3. Fun! Fun! Fun! One of the reasons why most people are hooked up with the online dating services today is because they want to have fun. In fact, most people want to hang around with people whom they find funny or are fun to be with.

#4. Copycats have no place in online dating sites. It always pays to be original, even in online dating. Therefore, for a person to be successful in getting a date online, it’s best to maintain originality and individuality.

After all, online dating sites have millions of members and the numbers are continuously growing. Therefore, the probability of getting a date online is pretty much a given if you search correctly. So, what’s the bottom line? Success of getting a date online is entirely dependent on the person, his or her profile, and the way he or she projects himself or herself on screen. In this article I give free tips and advice to help people to have a successful first date. I hope you find the information interesting and beneficial and wish you luck on your first date. Most people find attending a first date with somebody to be a very stressful occasion. They may take hours in choosing what to wear and even whether to turn up at all.

#5. The location of the first date. This is my idea of a possible location for a first date. When I take out a woman for the first time I normally take her for a couple of drinks first at a bar. After about an hour I would then if she didn't mind of course, take her to watch a film at the cinema. After the film I would then take her for a couple of more drinks.

There is a reason for this madness! Firstly it is not really appropriate to go straight to the cinema without a bit of conversation first. As this is the first date, there is a good chance that the conversation could go a little stale after an hour, hence it's time for the cinema. During the film you will have plenty of time to think of lots more interesting topics to discuss and even if you are unable to you, you can always talk about the film when you return to the bar. If on the second date, that is if you get that far, you start running out of things to talk about, you can always mention how great or bad the film was you watched together. When your are talking whilst having a couple of drinks, make a point of spending more time talking about your date rather than yourself. Show a big interest in what they have to say even if you are finding it boring. Laugh at their jokes even if they are not funny, you get the idea!

#6. Tell the truth. When talking about yourself it is a good idea to tell the truth, that is if you want the relationship to last. As time goes by your partner will find out a lot more about you and if they realise that you have lied, they may then find it hard to believe and trust you in the future. What is a relationship without trust? Answer, dead.

#7. Always smile. There is nothing worse than going on a date with a person who is constantly moaning about things. Be happy, be bright, always smile and talk in a positive rather than negative way.

Instead of worrying about how the date might go, I would advise you to look forward to it. You never know this one may turn out to be the real deal. Online personals and dating can be a very fun venue towards meeting that special someone. However, one's safety should still be the top priority. Did you know that most online dating services do not pre-screen their users? This means that they cannot ensure that the people you meet through their sites are safe enough to be dealt with. So, this makes you call the shots when it comes to screening them.

Here are a few tips to make online dating less risky and more fun:

#8. Anonymity Breeds Safety, For Awhile. Giving your real email address, personal web site URL, last name, phone number, place of work, home address, or any other information that identifies you in your profile or first few emails that you exchange with other members makes you an easy victim. Turn off your signature file, or make sure that it does not have any identifying information, when sending emails to a member through your own email.

#9. Photo Perfect Request. To give an idea of the person's look, thus make you a tad safer, request for a picture. A scanned photo won't cost so much, so not much alibi can be given for not doing it.

#10. Lean on Common Sense. Trusting your online acquaintances easily can make you easy bait. If your gut feel tells you that someone is lying, there's a big chance that he or she is actually lying. Then, don't go justifying his or her acts. Look for someone that deserves your trust. Online intimacy is very dangerous. Don't indulge yourself on such endeavor at the click of a mouse. Logical thinking will save you a lot of trouble.

#11. Call First, Don't Drool Just Yet. A person's skills when it comes to communicating can be easily gauged through a phone call. Though it might cost you some moolah, it still is worth it than risking yourself to falling for an anti social. However, to make things a lot safer, use a cell phone or a pay phone instead of using your land line. Unless you are absolutely comfortable with the person you are calling, don't give your home phone number at once.

#12. Delay the Meeting. It is advisable to take your time and get to know the person as much as possible first before saying yes to a face to face meeting. If he seems to be only spouting or keying saccharine words that you want to hear, the person on the other end might have a questionable honesty. Don't feel like you are obligated to meet anyone, you still have the last say on whether you are ready to meet the person or not. You are free to change your mind if anything feels not right.

#13. Psychoanalyze or End up with a Psycho. You should pay attention to any signs of intense frustration, anger or any displays of aggressive behavior. If the person is trying to control or pressure you, stop the communication. Here are the other alarming manifestations of bad behavior that when spotted, should make you stop from communicating with your online friend, giving dubious info about appearance, age, interests, profession, marital status, etc, refusal to converse with you over the phone when you have already established online intimacy, consistently not giving any direct answers to direct questions, etc, overly agreeing to your every statement, asking you to provide travel arrangements

#14. Offline Meeting. Before meeting your online friend, tell someone reliable where you will go and when you will return. Leaving your date's name and phone number is a good idea. Bring your mobile phone. Don't make your date pick you up at home. Have your own transportation and meet somewhere public. During the date, don't leave your drink unattended. After the date, leave on your own too.

To make online dating work, it is imperative that you exercise caution. Have ample time to get to know the other person, don't rush yourself or allow anyone to rush you into doing anything. It's better to be safe and dateless for a while than sorry. Never bring up anything that has to do with a past ex. This is guaranteed to cause a fight. It is the ultimate taboo conversation. Honesty and open relationships are great, but some things should be kept in the closet. Don't risk damaging a good relationship by mentioning meaningless times from the past.

#15. Don't ever talk about him. Even if what you're saying is uncomplimentary, it will still have a negative effect. Your bringing him up hints that he's still on your mind.

#16. Never say how good he was at anything. Doing this will create unnecessary anxiety and feelings of inadequacy with your guy.

#17. Avoid telling him about intimate and special moments that you and your ex shared. Yes, it's important that he knows about you. And, yes, he needs to learn to deal with his insecurities. Butwhy make him insecure in the first place? Is it really that important for him to know everything about you?

#18. Never mention your sexual pastespecially if it was good. If yourboyfriend asks you what it was like or how good it was, lie if you have to. Say it wasn't all that.

#19. Avoid telling stories or reminiscing about events that involved your exeven if the story has little to do with him. Examples are: "I went to a great restaurant once" or "Last year I went to this amusement park and had a great time" or "I went to the beach last summer"

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No, you can't solve all the problems in life with this stance, but at least, you will be regarded and respected as a more understanding human. You've heard that song, "Silent Night, Holy Night." Well, there is something sacred about silence. Enlightenment comes to Zen monks in silent meditation. With this in mind, here is an extremely bold idea for a date. It's highly unusual, to be sure, and not many will try it. Ask someone out on a date, but make this rule, Neither you nor your date will speak a single word for the duration of the date.

That's right! You both will take an oath of total silence. You will also keep all other forms of communications to a bare minimum. That means no writing notes, few or no hand signals, or any other form of symbolic communication. What you actually do on your silent date is not as important as the fact that you are dating in silence. For example, if you go out to dinner, you would not be able to speak to the waiter when ordering food. Although you might handle this by simply pointing to the menu items, the idea is to shape the date around the fact that you won't be saying anything. Choose an activity carefully. If you go to a movie, you won't be able to discuss it. Why this idea? Why a silent date? What good could possibly come from it? Well, to be silent is tremendously difficult for all of us who live in the modern world.

We live in the Age of Information. Everywhere is the constant clamor of communication. Radios play, TVs blare, people everywhere babble into cell phones, even when they have nothing to say. But if a person could just stop for a time to just listen and observe, tremendous new insights can be discovered about what it means to be alive today. Furthermore, when you share your silence with a dating partner, you are creating a huge opportunity to learn extremely subtle clues about who this person really is, and what he or she is all about. Just as a blind person must enhance his or her other senses to compensate for the lack of sight, two silent people must double or triple their other senses for reading what the other person is like "beneath the skin." The silent date can produce truly amazing insights about other people. Interacting and observing with another person in silence is a powerful experience!

Also, if you cannot be comfortable with another person in silence, it's a good sign you can't be comfortable with that person in any way. That's because we all use mindless chatter to cover up for how we really feel. We all know how people blurt out anything, just to fill those uncomfortable silent moments. When you date under an oath of silence, you are forced to accept your date on a more subtle level. You see deeper into their personality and psyche. In fact, it may take several silent dates to get the full effect of this.And consider this, After your silent date is over, you will have an iron clad reason for a second date, you need to get together again to share your experience, and talk about what you observed and felt! This can be tremendously fun! For example, let's say your silent date involves a walk in a park. Perhaps you both stopped to observe some wildflowers, or paused to gaze upon a water pond. After your silent date, you can ask your date, "You know, I really wanted to know what you were thinking when you were looking at those colorful wildflowers?"

The answer can be surprising! You see, an important aspect of the silent date is that both people are forced to project their own theory about what the other person is thinking during specific events and activities. What you thought your date was contemplating, and what he or she was really contemplating, can be dead on, or totally off base. The silent date requires that each person pay extremely close attention to the other as you both strive to determine meanings. This can only be a good thing. Too often, what a person actually says does not always reflect what he or she really means. Spoken communications are often misinterpreted. But a silent date gives the daters deeper, more subtle insights into each other. Ironically, silent dates actually enhance communication in the long run. It does that by forcing the daters to confront the process of communication from a new and more profound level.

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Yes, there will be days when things get routine, but we can always vouch for a little excitement from time to time. Don't you think? Now this idea, I consider it to be something that you can only use once in a while. Simply because it too would become a predictable routine if used too frequently. Also, because it's based on timing and money. And since neither of those things are always available at the time we want them to be, you just may have to stash this one away until you find the appropriate time to use it.

The Date in the Making. I was thinking a fun thing to do when things get a little stale is spend a few days away from one another. Now, before I go any further, let me say this isn't a bad thing. This is all geared toward adding a little extra fun in the mix, if you're up for a small adventure. The two of you may be getting along famously, but if you're looking for a little more festivity this could be it.

Here's how I have it all in mind. You can sit down with your partner and collaborate on which one of you will spend a couple of days away from home. If you have a relative in town this could be the option you take or if money isn't a problem you could spend a couple of days in a hotel. Once you've come to an agreement then it's time to put the rest into action. Okay, so let's say your husband decides to be the one to spend a couple of nights at a hotel. Right now, you might be wondering why he needs to leave the house at all. Well, there is one very important reason why this is a good idea.

Once the both of you separate and spend some time apart, functioning without one another for several days makes the anticipation of seeing each other again a lot more exciting. The two of you are able to reconnect with the reality of spending time apart. Things will happen in your day that you'll be able to converse about later, and vice versa. Another reason is that it induces appreciation for the other person. Sometimes we take each other for granted, but when we spend time away from one another, it's a lot easier to see how important that person is to us. But I don't want to get ahead of myself, it will make more sense as I move along, and by the time you're done reading all of this it'll all come together nicely. So, now that you've both decided on the fact that he'll be leaving for a couple of days, the next step is to spend a few days without any initial contact with one another. I consider one day too little, two days to be a fair amount of time, and three days to be just right. But how many days is really up to you in the end.

Once you've established that and he's ready to leave, you'll also want to make certain that you have no idea where he is staying. It's important that he keeps this a secret. Now, for emergency purposes, he may at least want to give you the phone number of the hotel he's staying at, so that you'll have a phone number where you can locate him in case an emergency occurs. That way, he's not forced to give you the name of the hotel or the location. Just a phone number you can use to get in touch with him if need be. After that, you can simply stash it away in a safe place and trust yourself not to use it unless it's absolutely necessary. Now that he's gone and the house doesn't feel quite the same without him, consider the following inventive ideas to turn this situation into a one of a kind adventure full of romance and excitement.

All of those days you spent alone without him, keep them in mind, because they will work to your advantage. Because on day three it's his job to call you up on the phone, whether it be at work or at home, and ask you out on a date! Once you accept, you can agree on a time, and it's his job to come and pick you up for your date. While he's been away, the house has been quiet, I know. It's no fun. But now you've got something fun to look forward to. Coming together again, and shopping for a new dress!

That's right, while he's trying to woo you, you can wow! him. You haven't seen each other for three days and he's planning on taking you some place neither of you have been before. Where? Who knows? That's his choice. But wherever you're going, you should be dressed to impress so that when he shows up at your doorstep he'll be presented with his reward for all of his hard work.

A stunning beauty at his side! So it's important to shop for something he's never seen you in. Something you're absolutely sure he'd love. Just like that of any first date. Whether he decides to take you to a new restaurant, walk along the beach, or just an intimate dinner back at his place, this is where all of those important or unimportant events over the next few days have some significance. Chances are both of you have quite a bit to talk about, although it's only been three days you've been away from one another. Three days apart can conjure up a lot of feelings when you love someone and you're used to them being around.

During your date, it makes for a good time to express what those feelings are and how much you appreciate one another. There are certain valuable things each of you bring to the table of your marriage, and maybe during the time you were apart, you got to see just how much he offered you on a daily basis. And to add more on top of that, over the last few days, things may have happened in your life that he would normally be there to witness. Well, this time he wasn't. So why not catch him up? It makes for good conversation similar to the usual date scenario. Once the two of you have come to enjoy the evening together, you've enjoyed the fine wine and nice dinner, and maybe had some chemistry on the dance floor. Aside from that, he's enchanted you with his dashing good looks and charismatic smile. Then once the night comes to full terms, you decide it's time to go. You had a lovely evening and you reconnect on the way back home. At least home is where you think you're going, until he invites you back to his place (the hotel). You accept. At the hotel, the two of you talk for several more hours and at some point find that old familiar chemistry drawing the two of you close once again. So you decide to stay that night at his place.

Hold on, before I go any further. Let's rewind. The two of you are getting along well. Everything is going smoothly. On the way home he invites you back to his place. You decline. He takes the bittersweet rejection smoothly. He drops you off at your house and walks you up to the door. "I had a nice time tonight." "I did too," he says, and with slight apprehension he leans in to kiss you (he knows he can't resist. The laws of attraction have been drawing him in all night). "I'd invite you in for a cup of coffee" (We all know what that means!) "Sure. Coffee sounds great," he says and follows you inside. Now of course the chance of either of you saying or doing any of that is slim to none, unless you're role playing, but that sure was a heck of a lot of fun to write. I couldn't resist. I was on a roll! No but seriously, I wrote all of that for a reason. Obviously you are reinventing the first date. One in which you get to choose your own adventure.

The idea of the hotel cannot only be used as a way for the two of you to spend three days apart, but also as an exciting incentive if you want that one night stand appeal with your husband by going back to "his place" which was the importance behind you having no knowledge of where he was staying. If you have no knowledge of where he's staying, it's all a complete mystery, and the suspense of that can add a lot of fun to an already adventurous night. However, maybe he'll be homesick and want to head home that night, hence the alternate ending above. The fun of it is that a lot of it is such a wild card. Both of you have surprises to look forward to and the beauty of reestablishing intimacy in a new way while you choose your own adventure! "Romantic candles not only lighten our path but also fill our lives and spirits with warmth and romance. The exuberant energy and smell exuded by the flame touches our heart and soul." That quote is from a friend of mine that writes for a living. I knew he was a big candle guy so I asked him why he liked to burn them.

I then went on to ask my friend to put into words why candles are so romantic, I can't wait for you to read his response. "Candles influence us in a number of different ways. Romantic Candle light spreads over a very small area, arousing a feeling of intimacy in couples basking in its warmth. Concentrating on the flame of the candle, relaxes one's eyes and one's mind. The warmth created by the little heat of the flame is very mesmerizing and captivating. Also highly scented candles are like the icing on the cake, as they trigger the olfactory nerves and relieve all our stress." WOW, I knew women love candles but I had no idea that men were equally as passionate about that little ball of wax.

All I know is after hearing him talk about candles the way he did I was sold. I wanted to rush right out and buy a few. I couldn't wait to burn a candle or two in hopes it would relieve all my stress, and help my love life as a bonus! That's when I realized I had no idea where to go to buy candles or what to do with them once I had them for that matter. So it was back to my writer friend again, I figured with all the candles he burns he surely could help me find the best place to buy candles and what to do with them when I got them. "I buy my romantic candles on the internet believe it or not." Go figure I thought, what can't you get on the internet these days? He went on to say, "I use candles many different ways to create a romantic mood for my wife and I" Just as I was about to ask him what site he purchases his candles, his mobile phone rang and he had to leave.

I did get a chance to catch up with him in the following days and we did sit down and he spilled the beans. He told were to get candles and how to use them to spice up the romance in my life.

I'd love to share these little secrets with you too, just visit the site listed in my signature below and you will learn my friends top 5 uses for romantic candles and how they will light up your love life. ]]> General Aussie Adult Chat BlondeTwinsLove http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3400-Approach-a-free-webcam-chat-personals-recreate-sex-time http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3399-Want-to-hook-up-for-sex-then-get-into-webcam-chat-dating&goto=newpost Wed, 16 May 2012 09:04:58 GMT So, you have finally opened up to the idea of webcam chat dating online for sex and prospect for a relationship that will blossom into something... So, you have finally opened up to the idea of webcam chat dating online for sex and prospect for a relationship that will blossom into something fruitful, like marriage! What we have explored up to now is the most important information you need to know. Now, lets dig a little deeper. Here are some tips for a successful online dating experience. Use utter special information. Of course, you should be practical in generous out special contact information. But otherwise, give out your likes and dislikes, your interests, and preferred books honestly.

Members on the online service may look at your site and disappear uninterested if they see that your profile is just full of Ask Me descriptions and statements. Okay, you might want to disappear additional information to those interested, but you have to give information on your profile that would show your best attributes. You might want to add photographs to your profile. Some online sites have audio and videotape features where you can upload your clips. Instead of a dull profile with no movies or videotape or audio clips, why not try these features? It makes your profile personalized and interesting.

When surfing and chatting in an online singles site, you must not be rude or aggressive in your profile. duck also with swear or curse words. People are bowed off by insulting remarks. Honesty is the best policy. Highlight the best characteristics that you have, but don't lie. If you are actually passionate about something, say so. Do not veil the gear that you are very passionate about.

If you actually like partying, say so. Pretending to be somebody you are not, won't help you get a time you like. If it is available, try the site's voicemail services. inquiry the speech of a prospective partner is wonderful. You could sense the person's background by the way they communicate with you. When somebody sends you an unsigned webcam chat message, try to answer as quickly as you can.

If you are decided in having online dates with the prospect of having fruitful relationships (and hopefully marriage), then you should be decided in replying to messages. Be patient. You should take your time in decision the great partner, and not only in online services. It takes time for people to enlarge and have decided commitment to each other. Always think optimistically. Keep thinking the best will happen. Want to get hitched? Try online dating. If you are looking for a long term relationship or marriage through online dating services, memorize that you should be unwearied and honest. Whether you admit it or not, any single men and women tend to find a partner, and mostly they find it on a date. But dating can be tough and first date is tougher.

So what should you do? Simple, just arm yourself with good first date etiquette. Here are the dos and don'ts and proper first date etiquette: When you go out on a date especially if it is first date, groom yourself properly before you go out. Wear comfortable, clean, and good clothes. Clean your toenails and fingernails, iron your clothes, wear nice watch, and clean everything that your first date can notice. Remember, you are building the foundation of the outcome of you date. The impression starts here. This basic first date etiquette on cleanliness is a must. Flirt with your date. Teasing her and making her laugh is also a parts of first date etiquette. Also, laugh at your date's jokes. Humor can make your date feel comfortable with you. It is also nice to give her a hug as soon as you met her.

A little physical touch can be a good etiquette on your first date. First date etiquette also suggest that you should have a stimulating conversation with your date. There is no better first date than learning how to talk. Do act like a gentleman to your date, open doors for her. And if you are the lady, act as one. Complement your date once in a while is a flattering first date etiquette. Tell where you will go and finally relax and have fun. Keeping these proper first date etiquettes in mind assure you of a higher chance of getting a second date but that's not all. You should know what you should not do on a date. Here are some: Avoid talking about religion and politics. Your date might have other views on these matters. It is not a good first date etiquette to look around while your date is talking. It might appear that you are not interested. Focus your attention to your date. Never ever talk about yourself too much. Never talk about your past relationships to your date. It is not a proper first date etiquette.

Another secret is sharing stories and listening intently. Don't make any offensive jokes. Don't be rude. Also, it is not good first date etiquette to pretend to be someone. Be punctual on your first date. Don't argue with her. Keep it easy. Staying cool and calm is really a good first date etiquette. With this first date etiquette on your mind, you should be ready to take your date out for the first time. But there are other things you can consider to keep your date yours. One secret is to keep her wanting for more. Date should be short and meaningful. A romantic dinner should do because in that setting, you can truly impress your date with your proper first date etiquettes. Keep her hanging. Make her clueless of your next step. Give snap judgment that you have feelings toward your date. But keep your first date etiquette. Bring your date to her house. But don't tell that you like her or you love her.

A simple phrase like "I had a great time" will do or "I was a pleasure to meet you" can be an alternative. Remember, don't mention directly to your date's face the phrase "So, when can we go out again. Instead, "can I call you again?" is more appropriate first date etiquette. First dates should not always lead to bed. When thinking of ideas for a a first date I like to try new things. Rather than cater to what either one of us enjoys I try to find something completely new. This is my way of starting off the webcam chat relationship with a bang and some excitement. Dinner and a movie has been done to death and so have trips to bars and clubs. Give a few of these ideas a shot and you will be pleasantly surprised.

#1) Skydiving. I haven't tried this out for a first date idea yet but it seems like it would really be great (provided neither of you are afraid of heights). It's exhilarating and standing together at the door of a plane about to jump out at several thousand feet has a romantic appeal that not many other things can match. Call your local municipal airport to see if they have any skydiving instructors.

#2) Hookah Cafes. If you're not one of the enlightened who enjoys middle eastern food and hookah then you should definitely give it a try. It might not be a good option for the health conscious but for the rest of us it makes an excellent first date. Hookah cafes are usually bustling places with a laid back and cozy atmosphere and is a great place to smoke a hookah, enjoy some coffee and have a nice conversation. This works especially well for college students as there are usually many cafes nearby.

#3) Art Conventions or Galleries. One of my favorite places to have a first date is at the monthly art walk they have here through the downtown area. Artists and vendors get together and line the streets. Musicians play their music for you as you walk around and take in the artwork. It works wonders for anyone who can appreciate art.

#4) Live Comedy. Another astounding option for first dates are local comedy clubs. There are a handful of really excellent ones in my area featuring both professional and amateur local comedy acts. This is a great way to break the ice; with some laughs.

#5) Wine Tasting or Tours. If you live somewhere close to vineyards taking a tour or going to a wine tasting make excellent first dates (as long as you're 18+). A few good wines and good conversation tucked away on a vineyard seems peaceful to me and has worked wonders for me in the past.

#6) Scuba Diving. If you are fortunate enough to live near the beach snorkeling or scuba diving make great date activities. Follow a romp in the ocean with a nice seaside dinner and you have the makings of romance.

#7) Poetry Readings or Book Signings. Poetry readings make great first dates and if you're the adventurous type you can even whip up a peace to read your date at the reading. Talk about a way to score some points! Book signings are also great even if you're not really into books. You can enjoy coffee and conversation with your date and often enjoy a dramatic reading from the author.

One thing more: "BE SAFE." ]]> General Aussie Adult Chat BlondeTwinsLove http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3399-Want-to-hook-up-for-sex-then-get-into-webcam-chat-dating http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3398-Mobile-phone-sex-via-SMS-or-a-text-message-chat&goto=newpost Tue, 15 May 2012 22:16:30 GMT A couple of weeks ago, at a relaxing, uneventful Saturday afternoon barbeque, one of the single girls decided to turn up the heat on conversation... A couple of weeks ago, at a relaxing, uneventful Saturday afternoon barbeque, one of the single girls decided to turn up the heat on conversation with a dating dilemma. "Why would a guy", she asked, as every man with a beer in his hand and no ring on his finger fidgeted nervously, "promise to call after a fantastic first date, and then do nothing but send flirtatious SMS or text messages for the next two weeks?" A few quick thinking cads made haste towards the barbeque to compliment the host on his steak flipping techniques and discuss last night's game. The rest of us found ourselves surrounded by a school of circling single white females, eyeing their prey over a fourth glass of bubbly. As a single male, I knew my chances of surviving this conversation were remote.

Ever so carefully, I backed up towards the safety of the kitchen door, mumbling something about a top up. Hidden behind the walls of my bachelor pad, having survived my near eunuch experience, I feel it's now safe to give you the inside scoop on how a guys mind works (or doesn't work) when it comes to telephone dating procedures. Of course, there are books that will tell you that Mars isn't that into Venus, because he has the maturity of an eight year old and is really looking for a Mother Earth.

Theoretically, they are quite sound, but throw them into the real world and they're about as useful as a man holding a toilet brush. I have some wonderful female friends. Some single, some in relationships. Like you, they are all sexy, intriguing and intelligent women. Yet, you all suffer from a common condition. I call it Men agitus. You caught it the first time some midget Romeo stole a kiss on the merry go round at pre school morning break, and dropped you for a Tonka truck and a sandpit by lunch. As a result, you seem to spend a significant portion of your lives analysing men's actions and words. In the case of communication, the answer is really quite simple. Men don't really enjoy speaking with women on the phone. Ok, maybe if the conversation turns a little flirtatious our ears prick up, but for the most part, the very thought scares us to death. You have blackbelts in voice boxing.

It's what you do. Your aim is to see if we are capable of stimulating your mind with our least exercised organ. Our objective is to get off the phone whilst you are still interested enough to see us again. In face to face land, we don't need to solely rely on our bogus communication skills. We can flash our boyish smiles, tenderly hold your hand, make stupid jokes, or attempt handstands. Anything to distract you from what we have to say. As visual creatures, we feel right at home here. We can gauge your reaction to our antics, read your body language, and take peeks at your cleavage when you're not looking. On the phone, we feel naked and exposed. Sometimes we might be. Once you stop talking, we are expected to reply, and we know you are listening intently with those inbuilt radars. We open our mouths and the words are almost too terrified to come out. We can feel your analysing mind ticking over asking, "What did he mean by that?" "How is getting your dog stoned funny?" between "mm hmm"'s and deafening silence.

Our confidence falters as we grasp for insightful comments and sweet anecdotes. It really hurts our brains, alright? Then along comes SMS or text, beep beeping like a beacon of light towards the shallow world of manhood, offering the perfect weapon against verbal interaction. We can make you feel desired whilst having a beer with our mates at the pub. We have time to deliver the perfect funny line. It enables us to absorb your probing questions and reply with confidence. Even end the conversation with a suggestive rendezvous, without committing to a date, and still come out looking good. You want to know why a guy sends you endless text messages and never calls? Think of his mind as a refrigerator. If he's insatiable for a taste of you the next day, he slips you between his leftover pizza and six pack of beer.

If he's not that keen, you're his spaghetti bolognaise. A delicious dish, but he doesn't really want you two nights running. So he's put you on ice between the brunette behind the bank counter, and the redhead from the gym. So what's the answer if you really like the guy? Stop making it easy for him to keep you at arms length. He's riding Message Street and there's no sign of traffic. If you want him, you have to turn the tables. It's time to get out of the party pies, and into the pepperoni. It means taking the SMS or text game to the trenches. Where the hunter becomes the hunted and one false move can be fatal.

The Recipe To Turn Swaggering Players into Begging, Pleading, Ground you Walk on Worshippers in 4 Easy Steps!

Step Number One. Resistance. Never succumb to those naughty midnight messages. He's drunk, alone and horny. Leave him to marinade a while. Ignore for at least three days.

Step Number Two. Set The Bait. Send a short reply telling him you've been busy, hope he's well, and you'll catch up soon.

Step Number Three. Be Patient As The Fish Nibbles. The male ego is easy pickings. When he messages, and he will, leave it a day before replying with confident, yet faint interest. Suggest he calls you some time, but not today, as you are tired from all your socialising of late. Note: be sure to use a word like socialising. In the male mind this translates to "flirting, and possibly more, with the competition."

Step Number Four. Reel The Sucker In. His imagination will be running wild by now. When he calls, be friendly but not over enthusiastic. If he asks to meet you within the next 3 days, stick him on a plate, glad wrap him, and plonk him behind your box of choccy's and half finished bottle of bubbly. If he suggests next week, pull him off the hook, tell him to kiss your proverbial goodbye, and throw him back in the sea.

Now you may be wondering why I'm telling you all this. Do I think it's time one of us was finally honest with women? Am I saddened by the pain women experience as a result of my thoughtless gender? Have I had enough of consoling broken hearted female friends on a Friday night, when my plan was to go out for a few drinks, laughs, and be introduced to their gorgeous, promiscuous girlfriends? Did I hope that revealing sacred male secrets would provide a new angle for picking up at parties? Yes, to all of the above. Hey, don't give me that look, I'm just a guy! You are on a date with a woman and everything is going well. Good conversation, your making her laugh and keeping the conversation on her. Now the date is ending and the last three minutes there has been nothing except stone cold silence. So you figure this will be a good time to make your move since everything was clicking less than five minutes ago. Wrong! Wrong! Wrong!When dealing with women always make your move or escalate the intensity on an up note.

In addition you want to leave on an up note as well. Perhaps for some men this advice may sound obvious. Yet some men do not realize how big a difference this will make with your success with women. When a woman is having a good time with a man she will find it easier and more exciting for her to escalate on increase the intensity with him because she is having fun and it will seem natural, if she even recognizes it at all. However, when you wait for the fun to end and then make your move it's too late. In a woman's mind after the fun(up) time is done your back at square one, suddenly your jumping all the way too square three or four and she has no idea where it is coming from. In her mind it would be the same as if you had just met and decided to put your tongue down her throat, maybe she wanted you to 1 out of a 100 times but more than likely she is going to respond negatively. I know that it shouldn't matter when you make your move on a woman, but it does so the next time you find yourself on a downturn instead of making your move then to escalate (way to late) look to leave on an up note and save the escalation for next time, you will find it to be much easier by then.
Now you know our game, it's time to unleash hell. ]]> General Aussie Adult Chat BlondeTwinsLove http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3398-Mobile-phone-sex-via-SMS-or-a-text-message-chat http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3397-Get-her-phone-number-get-a-date-or-chat-online&goto=newpost Tue, 15 May 2012 08:46:46 GMT Asking someone out on a webcam chat date is not rocket science, but for some people it can be very overwhelming, especially when asking somebody out... Asking someone out on a webcam chat date is not rocket science, but for some people it can be very overwhelming, especially when asking somebody out for the first time. By following the tips below you can help increase the odds of getting a YES when asking someone out on a video chat date.

#1. For starters you should wait for a relaxing environment when asking someone out for a date. Never make that move in a tense environment. You don't want to come across as tense or stressed out. You want to appear calm and confident. It's important that everything should just flow smoothly.

#2. Do not pop the question out of nowhere. The conversation should naturally lead into asking someone out for a date. For example, it would be ideal for both of you to have just finished talking about something that you both are interested in which brings comfortability and then an "Oh by the way" is a perfect opportunity to ask for a date.

#3. Be sure that when you ask out somebody for a date try to do something that you enjoy doing and are good at. This will increase your confidence both when asking them out on the date and during the actual date. Confidence attracts people towards you.

#4. If you did get that first date then your next job is doing all of the right things to get the second date, right? So while on that first date, be sure to have the attitude of giving rather than getting. Try to involve activities that he or she would enjoy. Do your best to create the date around them, showing your attention, and making them feel special.

#5. Last but not least, just be yourself when asking him or her out on a date. Do not try to act like someone else or pull those one liners. Trust me, being original works every time!

A person may want to get the waitres's phone number because he wants to have a communication with the waitress. He may be attracted to the waitress but he does not have the courage to get the number personally. He may want to get the phone number if ever he may want to invite the waitress out for a date. Sometimes a person may tend to be shy and he may think that he will be judged at that moment once he asks for the phone number. There is nothing to be afraid of in asking the waitres's phone number, as long as the person has good intentions. Here are some tips that can help a person on how to approach a girl when asking for her phone number.

#6. The guy may get some information first regarding the name and some personal information on the waitress from her co workers in the restaurant. He needs to make sure that the manager is not around. The manager may think that he is disturbing his employees.

#7. He should know her friends in the restaurant. He can make friends with them as well so that it would be easier to get some information about the waitress that he likes.

#8. He should exert the effort to visit the restaurant regularly where the waitress works. If he is a regular customer, the waitress may remember his face and even remember his name.

#9. If the person is patient enough to wait until the restaurant closes, the waitress may have the idea that this person wants something from her and she may even make the initiative to ask questions if there is something the person would like to know.

#10. This could be the right time for the person to introduce himself to the waitress and get her name as well, although the person already knows the name of the waitress. He can then tell her that he would like to make friends with her and she has nothing to worry about.

#11. He has to make sure that he tells the waitress that he is a good person and his only intention is that he wants to get his phone number. A person should stay cool when he asks for the phone number. He must not show any excitement when asking for the number so that the waitress will not hesitate in giving his phone number.

#12. The guy should let the waitress write the numbers on a piece of paper that the person prepared. He may tell her to write the numbers bigger and clearer. If the guy is using a cell phone, he can tell the waitress to dictate the numbers slowly then register the numbers on the phone. He should ask her to repeat the numbers that she has dictated to confirm that the numbers were correctly registered.

#13. He must tell her his true intentions after getting the numbers. He should be honest in telling her that he wants to have a communication with her because he wants to know the waitress better. Through the telephone, there can be relationships that can be established especially when two people constantly contact each other.

#14. He must ask the waitress on what time she will be available for a conversation. He should know the most convenient time to call the waitress. He should know if the waitress has some time to talk with him. Anyway, the waitress will not give the number if she has no time for it.

#15. If there is an established communication on the phone. It could be the right time for the person to ask the waitress out for a date. He can assure himself that he would not be declined on his invitation because they may have no more hesitations to each other. They have already built a special relationship on the telephone.

There are times that a person needs to have the guts in confronting the waitress that he likes. He should have enough confidence because this is the key to get to know a girl better. Girls can find it impressing if they see strength and courage in a man. Asking a girls phone number is not a hard task to do. As long as there is a good intention and respect then there is nothing to worry about. Girls can be sometimes hard to convince especially when it comes to asking them out on dates. A person cannot blame the girl if there are reasons why she is not available for the date. She may be busy on her work or she might be attending an important gathering.

There could be a possibility that she might be insecure because she is not used to going out with other men. Asking her out could be a problem to a person who is eager to date a girl. A person can find it hard to hear the magic word "Yes" from the girl he wants to date. Here are some useful tips that would help a person in convincing a girl to go out on a date.

These tips have been proven to lessen the pressure in inviting a girl.

#16. The best alternative that a person may use to invite the girl is through phone. It is important to dial the number correctly. The person should be composed when asking her whether she would like to come or not. If she said no on the invitation, the person should not feel offended or feel bad about the rejection.

#17. The person must stay cool and continue the conversation by asking her if she would be available on a different schedule. If she agreed to come with him in that particular day, then it is time for the person to have a plan set in his mind. It could be better if there are some ideas for her to know what the plans are for the date. It is important for her to know so that she may adjust her schedules and meetings.

#18. There are also instances that she may say that she could be available on some other time. The person should have another plan prepared in case she has a tight schedule. There are circumstances that the girl tends to act that she is not that quite sure if she can come because she does not want to offend the person or disappoint him for the rejection.

#19. If a person wants to be sure that the girl will surely accept the invitation, confirm that the girl is interested to knowing the person. A woman who is attracted to a person is obviously easy to invite. The person may never use any magic or tricks to convince the girl to go out with him on a date.

#20. In asking a girl out for a date, he should be specific on his plans for that date. He must tell the date, time and venue of the date where they will have dinner. If the person has invited her to come in their house to eat dinner with his family, he must pick the girl from her home and drive her to his house.

#21. Remember to behave properly on the date. Being a gentle man can establish her thinking that he has good manners. A person should establish a good personality on his dates. This would allow the person to have courage in inviting her again to go out. If she agrees, this can be a strong indication that she is beginning to like the person.

#22. The person should take the opportunity in knowing more about her. He may ask questions regarding her work, past, and dreams. If she entertains the questions, then it is a good sign for him. Listen to her. Most girls love to talk more about themselves. Give her enough time to tell her stories and comments. The person can assess about the information he had learned and he may assess himself if he wants to date the girl again.

#23. If there is attraction between the two persons dating, he must make sure to ask the girl again to go out with him as long as their schedules meet. He can be sure that the girl will have no doubts in going out with him again because there could have been a mutual interest on both of them. They would want to spend some time again together.

Do not be afraid to ask a girl to go out on a date as long as there are no bad intentions for asking her out. Assure her that she will have a great time and remember to be calm and natural in front of the girl. ]]> General Aussie Adult Chat BlondeTwinsLove http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3397-Get-her-phone-number-get-a-date-or-chat-online http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3396-Dont-be-afraid-romantic-encounters-do-happen-online&goto=newpost Mon, 14 May 2012 21:51:35 GMT Another way would be one of your friends telling you about it. Another way is to just find someone who has tried online dating and ask him about the... Another way would be one of your friends telling you about it. Another way is to just find someone who has tried online dating and ask him about the experience, both positive and negative. That is exactly what I plan to do in this article. Of course, the men I am going to interview for the article wish to remain anonymous, so I will just call them Online Dater 1, 2, and 3.

We will begin with online dater 1; (a 37 year old male)

Me: How did you hear about online dating?

Online Dater 1; How can you not hear about it. You get emails, popups at websites, etc. You’d have to live under a rock to have not heard about online dating.

Me: Where and how did you meet your first online date?

Online Dater 1; At Match.com. I was searching profiles and found a few women that I might be compatible with and sent them emails. I paid for a membership there so I would be allowed to email them.

Me: How long did you chat with this person online before you two decided to date in person?

Online Dater 1; We exchanged several emails before we actually exchanged phone numbers. And basically, one fairly long phone call turned into a date.

Me: What was it about them that made you want to meet them in person and did you feel they were your soul mate?

Online Dater 1; I thought she was sweet. She shared a lot of the same values I did, or said she did, anyway. She piqued my interest. I never thought of her as my soul mate, but did want to get to know her better.

Me: Was your first impression of her, upon seeing her in person a surprise, a positive reaction, or a negative reaction?

Online Dater 1; To be honest, she looked absolutely nothing like her picture. She had posted of picture of herself, much younger, and about 150 pounds lighter. However, she was still a very pretty lady.

Me: So, tell us what happened after meeting her in person.

Online Dater 1; We dated a couple of times. I did like her. I understand why she was still single at 38 years old. She wanted Antonio Banderas to wine and dine her and quite frankly neither of us was in that league. Her standards were far too high.

Okay, next I will be talking to a 29 year old male about his experience.

Me: How did you hear about online dating?

Online Dater 2; Match.com emails.

Me: Where did you meet your first online date?

Online Dater 2; Same answer, emails from Match.com got me to sign up. I received an email from a girl who saw my profile.

Me: How long did you chat with this person online before you two decided to meet in person?

Online Dater 2; A couple of days. We talked by email for a couple of days, then by phone for a couple of days.

Me: What was it about them that made you want to meet them in person and did you feel they were your soul mate?

Online Dater 2; She was just really nice, sincere, honest sounding. She didn’t seem to just be saying what I wanted to hear. I felt her answers were honest. Everyone has their ups and downs in life and she was open about the things she was going through and things she had gone through. The openness impressed me. Did I think she was my soulmate? Honestly, yes.

Me: Was your first impression of her, upon seeing her in person a surprise, a positive reaction, or a negative reaction?

Online Dater 2; A positive reaction, totally. She matched her picture and profile to the letter and was smiling like an angel.

Me: So, tell us what happened after meeting her in person.

Online Dater 2; We dated frequently from day one. We were both obviously very interested in each other. In a very short time we both knew we were in love with each other. Within two months I knew she was the girl I wanted to marry. We’ve been happy ever since.

Last, a 38 year old male shares his online dating experience with us.

Me: How did you hear about online dating?

Online Dater 3; A friend of mine suggested I try online dating. He had gone from never having a date to having a date every weekend, so I thought I would try it too.

Me: Where did you meet your first online date?

Online Dater 3; Yahoo Chat. I didn’t go directly to an online dating website, I put my free profile up in Yahoo Personals and someone contacted me through Yahoo Messenger.

Me: How long did you chat with this person online before you two decided to meet in person?

Online Dater 3; We only chatted for about an hour before deciding to meet in person. It was really quick. She suggested we meet in person. It was like 9pm at night and she suggested or hinted that something might actually, “happen” tonight. Since my friend had so much luck with online dating, I figured, what the heck.

Me: What was it about them that made you want to meet them in person and did you feel they were your soul mate?

Online Dater 3; That doesn’t really apply here as far as the whole soulmate thing. She lived close by and well, I am a guy.

Me: Was your first impression of her, upon seeing her in person a surprise, a positive reaction, or a negative reaction?

Online Dater 3; None of those. She was alright, kind of plain, but still attractive. She didn’t really have much personality and I don’t think either of us were looking for personality that night.

Me: So, tell us what happened after meeting her in person.

Online Dater 3; This is where it gets ugly. We had fun the first evening. A couple of days later I invited her to my house. And again, it was okay, but I realized that this was not the girl for me. So, I politely told her that I really did not want to continue seeing her.

Four days later, on a non exciting Sunday Night, I climbed into the shower before going to bed. About 15 minutes into my shower, this girl, unannounced, appeared IN my shower professing her undying love. My front doors were LOCKED, she broke into my house, stripped down, and climbed into my shower.

I started having visions of the movie, Fatal Attraction. I asked her to leave. She said no. I had to actually have the police remove her!

Me: Does this mean you won’t be dating anyone from online ever again?

Online Dater 3; No, not at all, however, the chatroom hookups are out of the question. I would prefer to go with a legitimate company that has some sort of screening process.

Okay, I would sum up my various interviews like this. You will meet some people you like and some you don’t. There will be successful online dating experiences and there will be failures. But not to try online dating at all is to have already failed. Just as online dater 3 said though, go to a legitimate online dating service and not just to some chat room. Learn how online dating can be fun. This article will show you how to take advante of this new experience. A dating service is not a new idea; they've been around for several decades.

What's different about today's dating service is the vehicle they use to connect people to one another. There was a time when online dating was not looked on as favorably as it is today. In its infancy, online dating was sometimes seen as the only way less desirable people could get a date. That's no longer the case. Online dating is growing rapidly, and is used by people of every age.

It crosses all the lines of race, religion, political affiliation and net worth. Even though you start out in the comfort and safety of your own home, typically the goal of online dating is to find someone you want to meet in the real world. Caution and safety are primary considerations throughout any dating process, but are particularly important where online dating is concerned. When you begin looking for an online dating service you'll want to look for sites that offer several screening filters to validate identification. This helps determine if the person signing up is really who they say they are. Browse through several online dating sites before settling on one. If you do a search on Google for online dating sites, there are over 3 million. Don't let that overwhelm you. Just pick a few and spend a few minutes on each one. You can also find review sites that may be helpful in assisting you with your decision.

You may want to consider signing up with more than one site. Be honest when creating your profile. Remember that you're looking for someone to start a relationship with and you certainly don't want to base it on lies and deception. For best results, you'll have to include a picture; uploading several would be even better. Make sure it's a recent one, not one from years ago. Make sure your personality shines through in your correspondence. It's a little tougher to do online since you don't see facial expressions and hear intonations, but with a little practice and the help of some emoticons and online shorthand, you'll become much better at it very quickly.

Of course, if you have a web cam, so much the better. Don't let your profile paint a boring picture. List your passions, your hobbies, your taste in food, movies, music, authors or artists. You want people to understand who you are and what you're looking for. You should never be uncomfortable with your dating experience. If a conversation becomes awkward or offensive, get out of it. Most sites will allow you to block members if you choose to. Don't hesitate to use that feature to eliminate unwanted correspondence or contact from a particular member. There's no need to be upset or feel offended if someone you're interested in doesn't respond. There are way too many people to choose from to let a few no responses discourage you.

Think of them as first dates that didn't work out and move on. Online dating doesn't have to end in a romantic encounter. Many people just want to keep things casual and remain friends. An online dating service can provide them the opportunity to meet people they would otherwise never have met.

Online dating can be quite effective and fun. Dont be afraid of it! ]]> General Aussie Adult Chat BlondeTwinsLove http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3396-Dont-be-afraid-romantic-encounters-do-happen-online http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3395-Discover-the-path-to-attract-many-more-women&goto=newpost Mon, 14 May 2012 09:16:27 GMT To a Man Who Wants To Attract More Women and Get More Dates, But Can't

Get Started.

First - Learn the Truth About These Myths!

How Often Do You Find Yourself Saying: "I Wish I Knew How To attract the ladies and get more dates"? If you're like most of the guys I know, it's often. More often than you want to admit. We go out on "dates" with women, hoping that if we PROVE ourselves to them in some way, they'll be interested in us and attracted to us. And time after time that just never happens. The date ends with a hug or a quick peck on the cheek, as she tells you, "I had a real nice time." If you've been put on the defense in this dance of romance, you can never really stop worrying, and your attitude will communicate things to a woman that will ultimately drive her away. What I want to do is take a few minutes here and destroy some myths about women and men and get you started on the right path.

Let's start right away with:

# MYTH 1) Women want what they say they want. It's a shame we have to cover this one, but it bears repeating. All you have to do is see the apparent contradiction between what women SAY and what they DO and you'll understand that they are not the same. Women have an ideal picture of "romance" programmed into their heads as little girls, primarily from bad fairy tales they read. Then they moved up to the "bodice ripping" romance books. Yes, those cheezy ones you see on bookstore shelves. Women (and men) don't understand that they respond to definite behaviors much more than others, and they are behaviors that conform to simple rules. They'd be ashamed to admit them, but they are true. And the good news for guys is that they can be learned. They're part of you already; you just have to learn how to demonstrate them.

# MYTH 2) Women are hard to understand. This is a gross example of laziness . Women are extremely EASY to understand. The reason most guys say those cliche phrases like: "Women! Who can understand them." Or other jokes to that effect is because men don't think the way women do about certain things. They think emotionally, while you think LOGICALLY. All it takes is for you to learn how to understand their way of thinking to understand them. You don't have to BE a pet hamster to understand that he just loves chewing and running on that wheel in his cage. So you give him things to chew on, and give him a nice wheel. Ba da bing. You just made Mr. Hamster happy. But when it comes to women, guys want them to behave and think like GUYS. And when they discover that they don't, they get all mad about it instead of learning how women actually think. Ask yourself this: Are you mad at the weather when it rains? Or do you just figure out how an umbrella works so you can stay dry? One you can control, the other you can't. One belief will leave you CONSTANTLY frustrated and angry. The other will put you back in control. Remember: It's not what happens to you that's important, it's how you RESPOND to what happens to you.

# MYTH 3) Right this minute you have all the skills you ever will with women. (Or, you can't improve your skills beyond where you are right now.) This one is the belief that follows right after the last myth. Men give up trying to figure out why a woman behaved a certain way, figuring that it's easier to just run around saying, "Women! Who understands them?" Just like everybody else. Who could blame us for feeling this way? Guys want a very UNcomplicated lifestyle. We don't like hassles and drama. (Whereas women seem to feed off this energy.) The truth is that your skill with women can ONLY increase from here, unless you're in a rock band or you're a gorgeous movie star where women are handed to you on a plate. But make no mistakes, you don't have to be a rock singer or a movie star to get women interested in you. All it takes is getting the right information to put you on the right track.

# MYTH 4) Women who are attractive are more important and their opinion means more than regular women. Now, before you take that the wrong way, let me clarify. A guy will tend to treat a good-looking women as if she is a precious commodity, and that she is more valuable than himself. We live in a society (and a world) that is completely hung up on appearances. We love beauty. We actually WORSHIP it. Look at the covers of magazines. Look at actors on television and in the movies. Look at our pop music stars. (Interesting that there are no 'average' looking people making good music, huh?) We pay billions and billions of dollars on our vanity. Hair coloring, makeup, cosmetics, you name it. There is a well documented psychological fact that we tend to attribute more positive beliefs and attitudes to people who are attractive. We respect them more. We tend to believe that they are more talented and capable because of their appearance. "Average" people don't get the same kind of favorable treatment. As we all know, you can't judge a book by its cover. Remember that hot women are no different than any other woman, other than the fact that she lucked out in the genetic lottery. She's probably been spoiled and unchallenged her whole life because of her looks, which actually makes her EASIER to get than most other women.

# MYTH 5) You need to convince, beg, or trick women into getting them to sleep with you. Oh, dear. This one is where so many good guys go wrong. Women want to do the nasty just as much as guys do. In fact, they get even more pleasure than we do, so they enjoy it more. The only difference is that women have better control over their desire than guys do. This stems from a time when women had to be VERY careful who she mated with, because she had to be sure she knew he was worth gambling her children's future, and her own, with. If he couldn't provide for her, she'd be in an incredibly difficult position. Probably even fatal. So she had to choose well. She learned how to read a guy's status and standing by his actions. (Never his words. Anyone can SAY anything.) The good news to this evolutionary programming is that it's not hard to understand, and it's easy to see through the Matrix and understand how to make it work FOR you. All you have to do is bring out certain behaviors you've been hiding for so long.

# MYTH 6) You have to be rich, famous, a jerk, or good looking to attract hot women - OR - You can't be a nice guy and get women. NOT! Women aren't actually attracted to jerks because of their abusive behavior. Or to famous people because of their fame. Or rich guys because of their wealth. They're attracted to the potential feelings that these guys can give them. Jerks give her a CHALLENGE. Fame is attractive because of the POWER. Wealth is attractive because of the SECURITY, COMFORT, and POWER. And all of them are really just indicators about the guy that wields them. It's easy to assume because a guy is wealthy, he can keep her in a way that she would find comfortable. It's easy to assume that because a guy has fame, he also has the wealth. And he wouldn't be famous unless a large number of people MADE him popular, right? This is called "social proof," which I cover in my e books and audio. Again, the good news is that these are external indicators that you can simulate with your own behavior. You don't have to be rich or famous, or a jerk, to get the women you want.

# MYTH 7) Women are better than men. This one is a lot like #4. A lot of guys run around with the idea that what the media tells you about men is true.

#7-a. That we're dogs.
#7-b. That we're only out for sex.
#7-c. That we're the rapists, pedophiles, and violent offenders.
#7-d. That we start all the wars.
#7-e. That we are just a bunch of grunting animals who only love football and porn.
#7-f. That we're just plain BAD.

Watch any of today's movies or television shows and they portray men as buffoons that can only understand "Three Stooges" episodes, or lounge around on our front lawns in wife-beater t-shirts on "Cops." Women have more than their fair share of problems and issues, and if you've dated a woman for longer than a few weeks or months, you know I'm telling the truth here. Don't get me wrong; they're the most wonderful and complicated creatures, but they're not BETTER than men. They're just women. And they can be understood.

# MYTH 8) The more you tell her about you or about how you feel about her, the better your chances to impress her and make her want you. This one is COMPLETELY the opposite. The more you tell her, the LESS she will feel for you. Especially if it's about YOUR feelings. A lot of guys think that if they just tell her how HE feels, she'll suddenly discover the love within her for him. Again, another Hollywood lie that is perpetuated because guys don't take the time to really sit down and think this through. What is the most important thing to a woman? HOW SHE FEELS. If you can make her FEEL the right mixture of curiosity, excitement, and hope, you can get her interested in you. I'll show you how to do that.

# MYTH 9) Guys must "ask women out" on dates because it's what women want. The single most routine and ordinary (BORING) thing to do is ask a woman out. You have to have more imagination than this. This is the oldest routine, and all women know how it works. By asking a woman out, you force her to think of you in romantic terms. It's like you just asked her: "Do you like me romantically, or don't you? Or would you just like a free meal and drinks, on me?" Golly. What a choice, stud puppet. You should never invest money in a woman that isn't ALREADY interested in you. That's like giving money to an investment that you know NOTHING about. You just saw the advertising pamphlet and it looked really good, so you bought into it. I've got a bunch of ways for you to find out if she is really into you or not.

#MYTH 10) Since I'm a "nice guy," I should be what women want, and therefore I should be getting laid. Nope. Sorry. Negative. This one belief will probably cripple you for life, as well as turning you into a bitter, angry man. There are more myths about women and seduction than you would believe. They're misconceptions that have been pumped into you by years of bad advice, well meaning friends, and our media and Hollywood programming. You owe it to yourself to find out what women are REALLY thinking, and what you can change to start GETTING RESULTS with them. Are You Serious About Wanting To Attract the Gorgeous Women and Get More Dates? Here's How To Get This Special Ebook, along with some bonus reports. Let's start by explaining what is it exactly Speed Dating. This can be arranged individually or by an organization as a Speed Dating Party with many people. The principle is the same, You participate in a fast round of short (few minutes per date) but with as many as 25 partners per session.

This Fast Dating method is quiet efficient and rewarding alike. Usually in few minutes, sometimes only three minutes you get to see your potential date, get a short impression from his or her looks, voice, accent, dress, self confidence and self esteem, few background information, enough for you and for them to make a go, no go quick decision which you can discreetly mark on a small card according to their tag identification Number. Usually these speed dating sessions are taken place at a cool fun bars. Arranged with tables for two, ready for these multi mini dates sessions. Each participant is seated in front of his date and when the host is blowing the whistle it is the signal it is time to move on to the next date.

It goes on and on until you finish all your mini dates. When you get home, you input the codes names of the partners you liked into the online dating system, you get a second chance to see their pictures and refresh your memory. After each participant inputted his selections the system makes the final matching of the preferences of all participants.

Hopefully, at the end of this computerized process you get a list of potential dates you liked and like wise were interested in you. Now, it's up to you to send an email to a partner and set a real quality date. This time there is no stress as you both acknowledged your mutual attraction for each other. It's no wonder this method is a hit as it has some notable advantages over some other ways to meet people, like blind dates and pick up bars. Just imagine, you arrive to a blind date with high hopes only to discover in as little as 15 seconds you are not attracted at all to the date partner. Since you are such a good hearted boy and you don't want to disappoint your date you go out together to a movie and spend some more time and money in a café when you know it has no future what so ever. Not only that, think about it, you would have spent that time and money 25 times!

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Honestly, it is really very easy to search for love dating online. There are many available adult dating services, free online dating services and other various types of online dating services. All you really need to look for is the kind of online dating service that appeals to your personality and to what you are really looking for in a potential mate. Online dating services and adult dating services of course should not be confused with those who are offering free sex sites. Aside from the convenience that can be brought about by these online dating services, the chances that you will be able to find someone that you might really like is also very high.

These online dating sites actually have a very large database wherein you will mostly be able to meet so many potential mates. All you really have to do is just sign up on one of these online dating sites and start filling out your profile. Filling out your profile is quite easy, just think of it as an autograph book like the ones you had when you were a kid. All you really have to do is fill out some simple details about you and your life, like your name, age, occupation, relationship status, birthday etc. Although there are some other there are some other added, fun details wherein you can talk about your hobbies (favorite books, favorite movies, and favorite music). It really depends on how you want to introduce (promote) yourself to those others who are in search of love dating online.

Also, since you are already "promoting" yourself in the world of online dating, you should also provide your most recent, real picture so that other people who are also looking to engage in dating online will get at least a glimpse of what you look like. Always remember that when it comes to online dating, even if it gives you the "confidence" of approaching just about anyone, it doesn't mean that you can cheat yourself into a date. You must provide accurate information about yourself so as to not to lead other people on. Don't be embarrassed about putting your real job in fear that you would be instantly rejected by those that you try to approach.

But if you really don't feel comfortable about putting it in, then just leave some of the parts blank but if your prospect asks you about it then that's the time that you have to let the truth out. Online dating services have not been put up just to make stalkers and serial pretenders out of people. In fact, these various online dating services, which are usually just free online dating services, have been put up to make the dating scene seem less scary and complicated as opposed to what we may all think. In spite of some "horror stories" that have sprung from adult dating online, that doesn't mean that it's not worth giving it a shot, all it means that while that "perfect stranger" is trying to sweep you off your feet, never let your guard down until you really know the person.

Online dating services are great because they also help you meet people that you would have probably never seen nor at least get to know on a personal basis if you weren't checking them out online. ]]> General Aussie Adult Chat BlondeTwinsLove http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3393-Have-you-ever-dreamed-it-possible-find-love-online http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3392-Existing-myth-does-xxx-cams-variety-bring-spice-to-life&goto=newpost Fri, 11 May 2012 22:02:02 GMT I have decided to bring upfront this important aspect of the dating scenario, multiple choices of women that lie ahead of all of us. This should be... I have decided to bring upfront this important aspect of the dating scenario, multiple choices of women that lie ahead of all of us. This should be one of your primary priority area of consideration, because it is under your control if you so decide. There happens to be existing a bit of dichotomy in this dating game, mostly created by women themselves. For your understanding, I want to break the existing myth, women do not like men dating more than one man. Did I hear someone say, Monogamous?

So many times I have heard some one say something on similar lines:
#A. This one's made just for me.
#B. I knew she should be just right for me.
#C. I know my soul mate, when I see one.
#D. God, help me, I don't want to lose her.

The lists of such exclamations are endless. A man meets a woman, finds her extremely beautiful and desirable, and then goes and spoils it all by idolizing her. He instantly puts her on a pedestal and from then on his entire world revolves around her.

What a waste, what a mistake! This kind of infatuation and fixation is a sure no no for women. It kills any sense of excitement and thrill expected to exist in a budding relationship. Let me take you through a discussion, where I analyze WHY you should keep on seeing other women, even if you have your eyes fixed on one.

#1. Attitude and confidence, Open other windows. When you are "fixed" or "stuck" with only one woman, you immediately shut out any buffer zone, or the comfort zone, which all of us need, in case something goes seriously wrong. In case she gets you out of her life, you spend the next few miserable months, or even years, thinking what is it that you said wrong, did wrong or hurt her unintentionally. Remember that song of the Beatles, Yesterday? You keep on longing for that single Yesterday. Since you have pinned all your hopes, aspirations and dreams on one solitary woman, you have lost all your sense of balance and proportion. Our inherent "fear of loss" arises out of the belief that there are "no options" anymore. This is it. The moment you realize, O my God, so many women, so little time, your spirit automatically lifts up sky high. As a natural consequence, you will relax, learn to be calm and collected in your deportment. You no longer fear any one, now, isn't that a wonderful feeling?

#2. Perspective and comparison, Compare, Contrast, Consider. If you start believing that the single woman who you have selected is the end all and be all of life, how are you going to assess her unless you know some other women too? You need to draw some kind of standard parameter guidelines, by which you can weigh the attraction level and find rationality for your feelings. If you have nothing else to compare her with, how will you ever know the millions of alternative behavioral norms that even exist?

#3. Perceived value, Women' envy, Owners' pride! Women go for the Jones's. Whatever the neighbor (in this case read it as other women) has, I must have it too. Right from jewellery, clothes, perfume to men! A man who is popular, talked about, seen everywhere and goes around with another woman, well, what is he like, is there any chance for me? Make a beeline for him! Join the race. A man who is WANTED. Who you see at the pub is ordinary, within reach. The "unconquered" triggers the killer instinct.

#4. The Obsessive Self destruct, Killing You Softly. Any sort of compulsion results in hasty, unrealistic and destructive decisions. The moment the world of choices open up, you automatically cease to show any compulsive behavior. The essence of this message is that you see and date as many women as there are available, till you meet the most promising one and it should be YOU who take the final call and NOT the woman!

#5. Don't let her feel "tied" down too early. Women hate to be treated exclusively right from the word go. Even if your intention is a temporary liaison, she gets a wrong signal. She immediately concludes that you are intent on a serious monogamous relationship. Now her pace and sense of rhythm does not allow this. The whole episode then becomes full of disharmony.

So the take home is message is this, Keep your options open. Keep all windows open. Date as many women as you like, more so, if you have located the woman of your dreams. Do not over indulge or spoil everything by idolizing her. To keep her interests alive, see other women. It pays, both in the short and long run. Being a man and being labeled a romantic is not always desirable. Or is it? Just because you like pampering your lady doesn't mean that you are any less a man than any other man. You can spend your day finishing your basement, working on your car, just getting your hands dirty so to speak but at the end of that day there's nothing quite like the look of love and care on your significant others face when you cook an impromptu dinner for her. And the benefits of what happens after dinner, or even before you get dinner done, far outweigh any negative connotations being labeled a romantic have. Being a romantic man is not that hard. In most cases it's the little things that women notice.

A glance, a quick touch or brush across her back. Sure, flowers are nice, but haven't they almost become a cliché. That's not to say women don't like flowers because they do, but if that's all you've got then it will only go so far. You have to mix it up, change your style and use your imagination to create romantic moments for the woman you love. And here's the most important thing to remember. If you truly know her and what her likes and dislikes are then it's easy. Think of something built around something she likes to do. Does she like shopping (not something men even like to think about much less do), fine dining, walks on a beach, watching movies and the list goes on. It's all about doing something she likes with her. And the fringe benefits of doing this are the only reward you will need. Now here's a little hint.

While it seems like you may be doing something you don't necessarily like to do that's not really true. Let's look at the shopping example. And when I say take her shopping it means shopping for her. Don't go to the local home remodeling center, you might find yourself sleeping in the dog house for a few nights. Remember, this is romance. You take a day to go clothes shopping for her. This is about her, but it is also for you because the idea is to go to the more upscale type of shops. Why? Because you are looking for clothes that she looks good in, that she will ask your opinion on as she models it for you. Not only does she feel sexy but you can see that in how she moves and carries herself. And if by some chance you can guide her into a lingerie shop, well you just might be surprised when she lets you pick out something and she wears it that night at home, or if your really on your stuff, back at the hotel room (now there's an idea: a night away from home). A romantic man is in a win win situation. And the best thing is it can be allot of fun for both the man and the woman. And women, if your reading this. We men like to be romanced to, but then you already knew that!

A few do and don't of online free adult cams dating.

If you are new to the world of online xxx cams dating and don't know its finer nuances, then you need to keep the following points in mind:

#6. Create a screen name that is interesting. Avoid using one that is too sexy or hints at marriage. A screen name that includes your name should also be avoided. A screen name that is based on your looks may be most appealing to men.

#7. You may be tempted to send e mails to all the attractive guys with your post code. If you are a little patient you my find that some of those men will contact you. If someone you fancy does not contact you, send him a short e mail and then wait for him to follow up.

#8. Avoid answering any questions you would not answer on a first date. Don't tell your date anything about your income or past relationships. It is not a good idea to tell him about how much you want to get married.

#9. Include more than one photograph. Men find the visual aspect much more attractive. If you post many photos, a man will get a better idea about how you look and whether you are his type, before he meets you.

#10. Don't communicate with a person who refuses sending you his photograph. He may have something to hide.

#11. A person who only sends you his picture or his profile may not be worth a response. If he doesn't have the time to write you an e mail, it is not worth wasting your time on him.

#12. Always wait at least 24 hours before you respond to your date's e mail. If you respond too quickly, he may get the impression that you are too desperate or that you have too much free time.

#13. Don't log on to your personal website or answer e mails on a Friday or Saturday. You must give the impression that you are not available, even if you are.

#14. If a man does not respond, stop e mailing him. If he is really interested in meeting you, he will contact you and ask you out for a date.

#15. If a guy doesn't ask you out even after four e mails you need to think about where the relationship is going. Keep mentioning that you are going out with friends and consider stopping all communication with him.

#16. There is no need to keep your e mails short. Sticking to three line e mails can seem strange to someone who sends you a long e mail. ]]> General Aussie Adult Chat BlondeTwinsLove http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3392-Existing-myth-does-xxx-cams-variety-bring-spice-to-life http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3391-Matchmaking-adult-xxx-webcam-chat-alternatives-for-singles&goto=newpost Fri, 11 May 2012 08:44:59 GMT In a new xxx webcam chat trend, singles are becoming increasingly disillusioned with internet dating and seeking alternatives. With millions of... In a new xxx webcam chat trend, singles are becoming increasingly disillusioned with internet dating and seeking alternatives. With millions of singles using the internet and the promises and success stories of online matchmaking websites, I've heard the same thing over and over from singles across the country who are frustrated with internet dating "It's great to have a lot of choices, but it takes a lot of time and I don't seem to meet anyone I have much chemistry with." This trend makes sense to me. In some ways, using a computer to find your soul mate is like trying to cook a souffle in a microwave. Some things just require time, effort, and the human touch. This article will explore the upsides and downsides of internet dating, attempt to explain why internet dating doesn't work for some (most?) singles, and suggest some alternatives.

Top Five Advantages of Australian internet free xxx webcam chat dating for singles. 1. Reach more singles 2. Inexpensive (relatively) 3. Enough information available for efficient sorting 4. Anonymous 5. Easy to control most aspects of the process

Top Five Downsides of Internet Dating. 1. Overwhelming number of choices 2. Encourages "shopping" mentality 3. Many users are less than truthful 4. Some users are game players, predators. cheaters 5. Complacency tempting to rely on the internet and exclude other options

The Internet, Chemistry, and the Law of Attraction. Today's singles seem to be relying on their computer a bit too much and complacently expecting the internet to deliver their soul mate. This is a version of the Fairytale Trap (one of fourteen dating traps in my book "Conscious Dating"). The internet is a wonderful tool (I use it!) but doesn't seem to work effectively as the only tool for finding potential partners. I believe that the two biggest reasons why the internet isn't effective for many singles is the role of chemistry and the Law of Attraction. Chemistry is critically important for a successful relationship.

Everyone wants a partner they feel strong chemistry with, and a relationship would be pretty dry and unsustainable without it. The Fourth Principle of Conscious Dating is "Balance Your Heart With Your Head." Identifying your requirements, needs, and wants does not minimize the need for chemistry. You need both! I like to think of chemistry as the radar that helps you find your target, then you use your requirements, needs and wants to decide "yes" or "no." The Law of Attraction is inescapeable and either works for you or against you. If you're "busy" or "shy" and the internet is your only means of reaching potential partners, in a way you're hiding behind your computer and the Law of Attraction is not likely to help you. The Law of Attraction states that "like attracts like" and "energy follows attention," meaning your results reflect your thoughts and your actions.

Over the years I've become convinced that the Law of Attraction is a powerful law of the Universe, like gravity. Just like "what goes up must come down," try as you might, you can't avoid or change the principle that "like attracts like." If you're hiding behind your computer, what people, relationships, and results are you likely to attract?

Top Five Ways to Find Your Mate Without a Computer.

#1. Use your support community. Most people find their soul mate through someone they know, so don't be a lone ranger (another dating trap!) and lean on your friends, family, co workers, and neighbors to assist you to meet potential partners.

#2. Start a dating pool or networking group. Get a group of singles together (any gender mix) to support each other to meet potential partners. Most singles know lots of other singles of both genders, so pool your resources and do some matchmaking for each other!

#3. Reach out to people. In today's busy world with cell phones, texting, instant messaging, e mail, and the internet promoting impersonal ways of interacting with others, it's easy to forget the lost art of engagement with real people that are right in front of you. Make an effort to reach out to the people you come into contact with in your everyday life and watch your relationships blossom.

#4. Make more friends. Since most people find their soul mate through someone they know, be open to developing new xxx webcam chat friendships and expanding your support community. Chances are you already have acquaintances at work and other places that you would enjoy spending more time with. Friends are easier to find than dates, and friendships often last longer than romantic relationships!

#5. Get involved. Too many singles lead isolated lives centered around work, home, and a few friends. Participating in clubs, groups, classes, charities, church or temple, is the most important way you can leverage the Law of Attraction to help you find your soul mate. You'll meet new people, make new friends, and pursue hobbies and interests important to you that bring you in contact with other compatible singles.

Balancing High Tech with High Touch. While technology can help us in many ways, let's not forget that as humans we are social beings and finding your life partner is a relationship goal that is most effectively acheived by getting away from your computer and living a full, rich life among real people doing the things you enjoy that make your life meaningful. As the ancient Roman playwright once said "Moderation in all things." Do you think he meant the internet as well? Let's address this trend of over reliance on the internet for finding love. Most men have difficulties in asking someone's phone number for a date but how can you really get your date's phone number without scaring them away? Different men have different approaches. Shyness makes it difficult for some to muster up the courage to get the phone number of the person they are interested in. Sometimes, men have the tendency to be too aggressive that it drives women away.

The best way to get her phone number is by asking her casually in a way that she can still feel that your interested. Saying the right words at the right time may convince the person to give you her number. For example, when you have just met this person and you are about to say your goodbyes you can say casually: "I enjoyed talking to you and I'd love to be able to phone you sometime." Some women might be uncomfortable with this scenario that they ask for your number instead. Don't take this against you. It doesn't mean that she is not interested in you. Maybe she has to work and thinks it's better for her to call you so that at least you won't be greeted by an answering machine every time you call.

Wait for that call for about three days and if the call does not happen then don't expect for her to call you. Getting someone's phone number is quite hard, so try to keep your conversation interesting so he or she would be interested. Men would want to get there phone number right away. They usually end up empty handed. Sometimes it's good not to ask her directly for her number. You can try saying that you had a great time and that you'd love to see her again. You can wait a little until she gives you the number, but if she doesn't and if you feel that she had a great time also, you can go right ahead and ask her the number. Women love confidence. And men have to understand that confidence isn't just about getting her number. It's how you handle the situation if she doesn't give you her number. Politely ask why she didn't in that way she would feel guilty and might just give you her magical phone number. Sometimes women would say, "Why don't you just give me your number?" This is usually there way of saying that they're not interested.

You can change that by trying to xxx webcam chat talk to her and making sure that she feels that your intentions are pure. Do not be desperate in getting her number. Women hate that. Desperate men sometimes, they lead to stalking. Try to be as casual as possible in getting her phone number. If she doesn't give you the number, move on. Another way to get her phone number is to first move up to her and start having a conversation. After 3 or 4 minutes, say that you have to go back to your friends and turn to leave. Then turn to her again and say, "Hey! Do you have an email?" And if she says yes give her a pen and paper and when she's writing it down say, "Can you write your phone number too?" Getting someone's phone number is quite hard. You just need to gather up your confidence and ask her casually. Don't make a big deal out of it if she turns you down. Remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Please pass this article along to the frustrated singles in your life that you care about! ]]> General Aussie Adult Chat BlondeTwinsLove http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3391-Matchmaking-adult-xxx-webcam-chat-alternatives-for-singles http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3390-Advice-on-the-rules-for-dating-your-co-workers&goto=newpost Thu, 10 May 2012 21:45:32 GMT If you're like every other workingwoman (or man) who is dedicated and hard working, your commitment to work makes it nearly impossible to meet anyone outside of work. You're probably not just a nine to five worker, you're that successful someone who works extra hours and weekends, and is trying to get ahead to be successful. And you know what that makes you? Sexy! Both men and women are attracted to people who are confident, passionate and focused, with interests and areas of expertise. Who wouldn't be? Think about it and there isn't an easier, simpler or more convenient place to meet them than at work.

Date at Work, But Work at Dating. Even though it's often advised against, dating people you work with makes practical sense, after all, we spend so much of our lives in the office, there's often no other way or time to meet anyone else. But you have to be extra smart about your choices, and take special precautions if you're going to venture into an office romance. Water Cooler Gossip. The one overriding warning worth heeding the one that should dictate all of your actions and words is this: People talk. No matter how friendly your co workers are, or how tight lipped the object of your affection seems, secrets are almost always spilled, one way or another, whether accidentally or intentionally. Translation? Say nothing and do nothing that you do not want everyone else to know about.

This means no chit chat with the girls at the water cooler about his size or performance, and no pillow talk with him about how much you loathe your boss, and can't wait to take over his or her job. There's too much at stake, like your livelihood to take risks, and there's too much to lose, like a potentially great love, not to give it a shot.

The Rules About Dating Co Workers.

#1. Don't mix business and pleasure on company time. Agree to date out of work hours, but don't turn a business lunch into a romantic lunch.

#2. If you're a supervisor or employer you must stay fair. Don't give someone you're dating better work or pay, and don't punish someone you're breaking up with by giving him or her worse work or pay. Otherwise, you may find yourself on the receiving end of a lawsuit.

#3. Make sure he or she is actually single. If they're not then keep personal remarks at work limited to sports, the weather and the kids. Don't gripe or listen to gripes about a spouse. "I'm sorry, I'm not comfortable talking about your wife. I want to keep our relationship all business because I value us as co workers," is all you need to say and do.

#4. Don't Boast. Your co worker boyfriend or girlfriend may look like Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, and you may be so pumped up that you've got a hot date with the hot-tie but keep your feelings to yourself and your friends outside of work. Work gossip is inevitable, but you must practice good behavior by keeping the water cooler talk to work and the weather.

#5. Don't Make Out At Work. Keep all affection outside of office parameters. It's okay to meet at the office, but don't smooch at the office.

#6. Don't Have Love Spats At Work. If things weren't great the night before, don't bring your disappointment to your staff meetings no pun intended. You will have to practice wearing two hats even if you're mad, don't put the kabosh on their comments at the Monday morning meeting and act out your frustrations at work.

#7. Do Put Rumors To Rest. If you hear gossip, don't fuel the fire by denying the truth. Everyone finds out that you're dating eventually. While you should not announce your relationship, you can say, "Yes, we're dating. We're both single adults and we're working very hard to keep our social life separate from our work life." And smile.

Both dating and working are natural parts of life, and it's natural to become attracted to people you work with. If you're both single and available, go for it! But be impeccable with your behavior and your work. You're going to be under more scrutiny in this relationship than you would be if you were dating someone you didn't work with. ]]> General Aussie Adult Chat BlondeTwinsLove http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3390-Advice-on-the-rules-for-dating-your-co-workers http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3389-Couples-best-place-to-start-a-relationship-tips&goto=newpost Thu, 10 May 2012 10:36:03 GMT Many people think of dates as something for young, new couples who are in love. This is true. However, when people say that, they think fun dating... Many people think of dates as something for young, new couples who are in love. This is true. However, when people say that, they think fun dating trips and outings are exclusive to this group of people. This is not the case. Couples who have been together just a short time as well as couples who have been together for several years both deserve to treat their relationships to fun date ideas to keep their relationships enjoyable. Keeping a relationship new with periodic dates for just the two of you is a great way to stay close as a couple.

The ways to decide on what kind of date you are going to take your loved one on include common interests, experiences you have had, and sharing ideas. One of the first things to consider when deciding on where to take your significant other on a date is the interests that you have in common with each other. Many times, couples have several things in common, but have things that they do not share as well. When you are considering a place to take a date, always consider whether or not your date will appreciate your idea. If you are really into football, and your date is not, perhaps it is not the smartest thing to do to take your date to a football game.

If you both like go cart driving, this is a terrific date idea for the two of you. Another thing to consider when trying to decide the location of a great date is to remember the experiences that you and your loved one have already had. If there is something that you have already done, and you have an opportunity to do something new and different, before you take the habitual date that you have already had, consider a new option instead of the same old thing.

Keeping your mind open to sharing new experiences with your loved one is a good way to get closer to each other. One other thing to think about when trying to decide on a date location is the sharing of ideas. When you are dating and trying to become closer by having common experiences with your loved one, it is very important that both parties have the opportunity for inputting ideas on where to go. If one party does all of the deciding, the other party could become resentful and begin to dislike not being able to ever choose date locations. A recommendation might be to do every other dates. Every other dates are dates where your loved one chooses, then you choose, and so on and so forth.

By sharing ideas and sacrificing your likes and dislikes sometimes, you can have a happier relationship by allowing the other person to have a say. Wherever you decide to take a date with your loved one, be sure to consider the three aspects that have been included in this article. Considering these three things will help you to have a better time at whatever type of date you decide to go on. Remember to take into consideration common interests between you and your loved one, previous dates and experiences that you have been on with your loved one, and the sharing of ideas when deciding where to go for a great date. ]]> General Aussie Adult Chat BlondeTwinsLove http://www.ausfantasy.com.au/forums/showthread.php?3389-Couples-best-place-to-start-a-relationship-tips